Well with this subject I just want to focus primarily on where to begin with men. I know it is titled where to end but that is simply because the end of man with woman is nearing because we can not figure out where to begin. Is it common for a man being very interested into what a female is doing? I can understand if she is your girlfriend, but in this case, she is not. Would you really be that concerned with whom else she is talking with? Moreover, if you wanted to know a numerical answer would you take it to the point of attaining qualitative data and ask for names? The way some men make it seem they do not want, you in their personal business if you all are not in a relationship. That means no asking about other females, no stalking, no pop up’s, NOTHING! So should not the same apply for a male? Especially if you made it known from the very beginning that you were not trying to be anyone’s boyfriend, boo, main jonk, nothing because you just got out of a hectic relationship. So when she respects that and treats it as such why would you act as if she is in the wrong?
Then to add to it you start doing the complete opposite of what you said and start treating her like a girlfriend. How did you know she wanted to be your girlfriend? I mean to go so far as to make plans with her in them without informing her. Then when she cannot do those plans because she has other plans made you trip out like. Then lol you tell her that if you make it known that you want to chill with her she should cancel any other plans to chill with you. There is no title to her name, ring on her finger, nothing. So why in the hell we she do that? Knowing damn if a female said the exact same thing to a male, he would quickly cancel or think about cancelling her ass if it was her first time fuckin up.
Nevertheless, what definitely does not make since is pressuring the issue of sex. That does nothing but get you cut off quicker. Never…ever….ever, ever, ever…put pressure on the pussy. That turns us off! Do not continuously talk about how good your sex game is. That does not do anything but make us think you were not blessed below the belt. Nor should you talk about how much your ex or past flings used to like it. Because then we want to find her ass and tell her to give it to you again since you cannot get your mind out of her uterus. Then to play games once the opportunity is given is asinine. As much as you pressure and mention having sex with the girl you turn it down when she is finally trying to give it to you? Then to turn around and have the nerve to continue talking about how much she would like it two days later! Using the “I didn’t have a condom” excuse does not work if you are dealing with a real woman like me. She would have no problem going to the store and buying them if she does not already have them.
I remember when men did not want to know anything about a woman except for if she was going to fuck him. I am not saying that was right, but that level of respect for her privacy is needed. There seems to be no middle ground or constant with the principles and morals of men these days when it comes to how they treat a woman these days. It seems as if they do not know what they want. That is where I ask where to end it with them…because I cannot even figure out where to begin.
Hello world!
2 years ago
